I write this heavy hearted a huge loss

[JUST PULLIN MY DINGHY]

I write this teary eyed and heavy hearted unfortunately we don't realise how much we take for granite how long we will have a family member.On Tuesday my father in law of 27 years Alan Maxwell Pyle aka "AMP" passed away from complications from heart surgey 25 minutes into the operation it turned into a life saving trauma he started to hemeriage uncontrollabley. They worked on him for 7 hrs trying to get the bleed under control to no avail he had 14 pints of blood in surgery and another 14 in icu, but atleast we where able to see him and be there with him when he passed. He is the reason i got into boating he taught me how to navigate around Barnegat bay by compass he was also the first person i trusted to go thru the Barnegat inlet of the old days with .He is the first parental loss from either side i can't believe how it hurts,I will cherrish the time i had with him he will be greatly missed.I don't know because of it happing all of a sudden from a surgey that we where told had a 95% chance of coming thru with flying colors that makes it so hard. I have lost a aunt and best friend to cancer it hurt but it seems you knew that the outcome was gonna happen in a short time so i think you have time to prepare for it or that it was a parent but i loved my aunt and friend just as much.well i rattled on long enough coulldn't sleep so thanks for reading i just wanted to share what a great person he was with someone. Atleast when im out on the water i know he's right there with me . "RIP DAD " I Love you and miss you dearly.

 

[Paulkarlsven]

Calm seas and fair winds for your father-in-law, I am sure he will always be with you when you are out in your boat, keeping a watchful eye on you out there.

I know how bad it is to lose a parent-in-law when my mother-in-law was taken quickly by an aggressive gall bladder cancer, it is never easy so grieve away mate it's only natural.

Cheers

Mav

 

[1956olds]

Sorry for the loss.memories live forever.

 

[juma]

Sorry for your loss.

 

[NCCamper]

Sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with during this time of loss.

JP

 

[mboater95]

Sorry for your loss, he will always be looking down on you!

Marty

 

[Georgia SeaDawg]

No words can describe how painful that is...Sorry for your loss. Keep those memories alive...
To all of us, tomorrow is never promised... live today as if it is your last.

 

[Tonka Boater]

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rob

 

[jason78]

Sorry for your loss.

 

[katricol]

Carpe Diem....It could be our last. Sorry for your loss

 

[midway]

So sorry to hear that, our prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of need.

 

[Jack F]

Sorry for your loss.

 

[Bugsy24]

Remember the Good Times, They're yours forever!
Sorry for your Loss!

 

[Alex F]

I’m very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. You need to remember how lucky you’re having such close relationship with your father in law. This is not very common, but I’m glad you have it. My prayers are with you and your family.

 

[Hampton]

I, too, am very sorry for your loss.

 

[ChuckW]

Very Sorry to hear of your loss.

 

[Big Island Lifer]

You and your family will be in my prayers. May God bless you all.

 

[Summer Fun II]

Sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

 

[HUMPH]

Sorry for you loss, I'm right with you as my sister passed away yesterday afternoon. She had been battling brain cancer since diagnosed I August. I was able to get there before they took her away to say goodbye. I wish I could have made it before she passed. Remember all, no matter what differences you may have with a family member, keep in touch, say nice things to each other because when it comes down to it family is family.

 

[Rono007]

Prayers, peace and blessings. So sorry for your loss.